Our story

It's not about documents.
It's about people. It's about purpose.

The Estate Planners for Life office at 1770 West Main Street in Norman, the Estate Planners for Life sign on the lawn

That belief has guided this firm since the day Tamara and Marty Cain opened its doors, and it guides every plan we build today.

The documents were fine. The relationship behind them was missing.

The room at the firm’s 2026 annual client meeting, exposed brick and string lights
How this firm started

A different kind of firm, on purpose

Tamara and Marty Cain kept meeting the same heartbreak: families who had done the responsible thing, paid for an estate plan, and still watched it fail. The plans had gone out of date. Assets were never moved into the trust. The law had changed.

So they built something different. Through the National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys they adopted an approach that treats estate planning as an ongoing relationship rather than a one-time transaction. They called it Estate Planners for Life™.

Marty Cain, Tamara Cain and Mitch Janik
Marty, Tamara and Mitch

The centerpiece of that idea is the Lifetime Protection Plan™, which keeps a family's plan current for as long as they are members. It is the difference between a document and a plan that still works on the day it is needed.

Today that work carries into its next generation. Mitch Janik, licensed in both Oklahoma and Texas and a Certified Three Step Strategy™ attorney, is helping lead the firm forward, so the families we serve are cared for not just for this decade, but for the ones to come. It is planning for life, from a firm built to last one.

How we work

The Three Step Strategy

01

We counsel, then we design

We start by learning your family, your values, and your goals, then design a personalized plan around them. If you teach us about your family, we will teach you about the law.

02

We keep it current

Life changes. So does the law. Through our Estate Planners for Life™ maintenance membership, your plan is reviewed and updated as your family, your assets, and the rules evolve.

03

We make sure it works

When your plan is needed, we are there to settle it correctly, guiding your family through administration so your wealth, and your wisdom, reach the people you love.

Client families filling the hall at the firm’s 2026 annual client meeting
What we stand for

Our Values

Four words that decide how we treat every family, every advisor, and each other.

Education

So every family can make informed, confident decisions.

Relationship

Built to last, with our clients, their advisors, and our team.

Dedication

To improving our clients' lives and our community.

Integrity

Honest counsel and follow-through, every time.

Readers' Choice Winner, Best Estate Planning
Recognized at home

Voted the best in Norman

Our firm has been named Best Estate Planning Law Firm in the Norman Transcript Readers’ Choice Awards, an honor voted on by readers across Norman and Cleveland County. It is the recognition we value most, because it comes from the neighbors we serve.

  • Norman Transcript Readers’ Choice, Best Estate Planning Law Firm
  • Member, National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys
  • Licensed in Oklahoma and Texas, serving families for more than thirty years

Meet the attorneys behind the plan

Estate planning is personal work. It should be done by people you know and trust.

Meet Tamara, Marty & Mitch

Guests at their tables at the firm’s 2026 annual client meeting
Inside the firm

A room full of the families we work for

Every photograph on this site was taken at our annual client meeting: the room, the conversations, the people we have looked after for thirty years. This is a short, silent look at that afternoon.

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The 2026 annual client meeting, Norman, Oklahoma
Guests talking by the brick wall at the firm's 2026 annual client meeting
A guest laughing at the firm's 2026 annual client meeting
Welcoming guests at the door at the firm's 2026 annual client meeting
Sitting down with a client couple at the firm's 2026 annual client meeting
Questions about the firm

About Estate Planners for Life

Who we are, how we practice, and why the firm is built the way it is.

How long has the firm been practicing in Norman?

The firm has served Oklahoma families from Norman for more than thirty years, and our office is at 1770 West Main Street. That longevity is part of the point: an estate plan is a promise about a day that may be decades away, and it should be made by a firm that intends to still be here.

What does counsel before we draft actually mean?

It means we do not start with documents. We start by learning your family, your values and what you are actually worried about, and we design around that before a word is drafted. Most families arrive expecting to be sold a set of papers, and the first meeting surprises them, because the questions are about people rather than paperwork.

What awards or recognition has the firm received?

Our firm has been named Best Estate Planning Law Firm in the Norman Transcript Readers' Choice Awards, voted on by readers across Norman and Cleveland County. We are also a member of the National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys. The Readers' Choice recognition is the one we value most, because it comes from the neighbors we serve.

Is estate planning all the firm does?

Yes. We do not take divorce, personal injury or criminal work. Estate planning, trust design, elder and long-term-care planning, and the administration that follows are the whole of the practice, and staying inside that lane is why we can offer a lifetime relationship rather than a transaction.

What does Estate Planners for Life mean?

It is the name of our approach and of our maintenance membership. An estate plan is not a document you sign once, it is a relationship that keeps your family protected as the law changes, your assets grow and your life unfolds. Estate Planners for Life is the commitment to be there for the whole of that, including the day your family finally needs the plan to work.

More questions are answered on our estate planning FAQ, or ask us yours on a Right Fit Call.

Is your plan built to grow with your family?

Estate planning is a process, not an event. Start with a Right Fit Call: a short, no-pressure conversation to see whether we are the right firm for your family, and what a plan that walks alongside you would look like.