Norman

Thursday, October 8 · 1:00 pm or 6:00 pm
Will Your Family Know What to Do?
Our office, 1770 West Main Street, Norman

Tamara and Marty Cain built this firm on the belief that good estate planning is about relationships and not just documents. Too many families they met had paid for plans that sat in a drawer and quietly went out of date. So they built something different: a firm that counsels before it drafts, and that stays with you and your family for life.
Today, with Mitch Janik carrying that work into the next generation, Estate Planners for Life™ serves families across Oklahoma and Texas, women and men protecting a lifetime of work, business owners planning succession, and adult children caring for aging parents.
Read our storyA plan is not paper.
That is what it means to be Estate Planners for Life™.
We will guide you through your planning options based on your circumstances and the right strategy that will fit your needs today and for your tomorrows. We consider who will have access and control as well as your goals.
Families who want a plan that stays right for the rest of their lives, not just the day it is signed.
See what it covers When there is complexity: a business, farm, land, other assetsFamilies with a business, farm or ranch land, real estate or mineral interests, or a blended family with competing loyalties.
See what it coversFamilies approaching or in retirement who are worried about the cost of care.
Learn more For a household with minor children and growing assetsA household protecting each other and the children, at any age.
Learn more A straightforward strategy for a simple estateOne person putting their own affairs in order, clearly and without unnecessary complexity.
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Most estate plans fail because a firm does the first of those and stops. All three are the job.
At the start
We learn your family first, then design the plan around it. If you teach us about your family, we will teach you about the law.
For as long as you want us to
Your life changes and so does the law. You are given the opportunity to periodically review your plan for changes in your life. Our firm will make recommendations based upon the law and our mutual learning. We will work together to make sure that you have an estate plan that will really work when it is needed.
The day it is finally needed
When the plan is finally needed, we are there to help your family settle it correctly and walk your trustees through the process.
Becoming a client takes three steps. If you are not ready for a call yet, there are three easy ways to get to know us first.
Step 1 of 3
When you are ready to explore working with us, the first step is a brief conversation with our team. We will learn what brought you to us, answer initial questions, and determine whether our planning process may be a good fit for your needs.
Book a Right Fit CallStep 2 of 3
Before meeting with an attorney, you will provide information about your family, assets, concerns, and planning priorities so we can make the most of our time together.
Book a Right Fit CallStep 3 of 3
Meet with one of our attorneys to talk about your family, what matters most to you, and what you want your estate plan to accomplish. We will explain how we may be able to help and outline your options to move forward in the planning process.
Meet the attorneysNot ready for a Right Fit Call? Start here instead.
Get to know us through our A Matter of Trust newsletter, where we share practical estate planning information, family and legacy ideas, and a little about the people and philosophy behind our firm.
SubscribeDownload Will Your Estate Plan Work When Your Family Needs It Most?, our 7-Step Guide and practical introduction to the questions and decisions that go into creating an estate plan designed to work for you and your family.
Get the guideAttend a complimentary Path to Planning workshop to learn about estate planning, our approach, and the issues every family should consider before creating or updating a plan.
See the workshopYour life, your story, your family, your plan.
The Estate Planners for Life™ difference
5 things you can do now to help your family later.
One hour, in plain language, on how estate plans actually work and how they quietly stop working. Our attorneys walk through what fails, why, and exactly what fixing it looks like, with time for your questions.
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Thursday, October 8 · 1:00 pm or 6:00 pm
Our office, 1770 West Main Street, Norman




We plan for and protect the things people spend a lifetime building: the land, the home, the savings and investments, the oil and gas interests, the family business, and everything else they have worked hard to create and accumulate. Several times each year, our clients are given the opportunity to gather for additional estate planning-related learning opportunities. These are the people and families behind our estate plans. These are the relationships we have built, the stories we have heard, and the families we have the privilege of serving.
Schedule a Right Fit Call“We feel fortunate to have found this firm. They took the time to understand our family before they ever talked about documents.”
“A genuinely good experience from start to finish. They made a hard subject feel manageable and even hopeful.”

Our firm has been named Best Estate Planning Law Firm in the Norman Transcript Readers’ Choice Awards, an honor voted on by readers across Norman and Cleveland County. It is the recognition we value most, because it comes from the neighbors we serve.
The workbook helps you clarify what you want your plan to accomplish, identify possible gaps, prepare the right people, and decide what to do next, whether this is your first revocable living trust-based estate plan or you are reviewing an old one.
Separately, you can subscribe to A Matter of Trust, a weekly newsletter from Tamara featuring practical estate-planning guidance, thoughtful reflections on family and legacy, and other estate planning ideas worth passing along. Sign up for one or both.

Short, plain answers to what most families want to know before they ever call. If yours is not here, our full library lives on the FAQ page, and a Right Fit Call answers most questions for your family specifically.
An estate planning attorney designs the legal structure that decides who receives what you own, who raises your children, and who makes decisions for you if you cannot. At Estate Planners for Life we counsel first and draft second, which means we start by learning your family, your values and your goals, and only then design the wills, trusts and powers of attorney that carry them out. The documents are the last step, not the first.
Oklahoma is one of the few states that sets probate attorney fees by statute, and once court costs, filing fees, appraisal and publication are added, families commonly see a meaningful share of the estate consumed before anyone inherits. The bigger costs are usually time and privacy: a traditional probate often runs six to twelve months, and everything filed becomes a public record that any neighbor, competitor or stranger can read.
A will alone is enough for some families and leaves others exposed. A will directs where property goes but still passes through probate, and it does nothing if you become incapacitated while living. A revocable living trust generally keeps your family out of probate, keeps your affairs private, and lets someone you chose step in immediately if you cannot act. For most families we serve in Oklahoma, a trust-centered plan gives far more protection and control.
No. Estate planning decides who raises your children, who signs for you in a hospital, and whether your family spends a year in court, and none of those questions depend on the size of your estate. Families with a home, a retirement account and children have as much at stake as families with land and businesses. The plan is different, the need is not.
At least every few years, and any time life changes. A marriage or a divorce, a birth or a death, a business sale, a move to another state, or a significant change in assets can all quietly break a plan that was correct the day it was signed. This is why our Lifetime Protection Plan includes ongoing maintenance rather than leaving review up to you to remember.
Our office is at 1770 West Main Street in Norman, Oklahoma, and we are licensed in both Oklahoma and Texas. We serve families across Cleveland County and the Oklahoma City metro, including Norman, Oklahoma City, Edmond, Moore and Yukon, and we hold free estate planning workshops in both Norman and the metro. You can reach us at (405) 364-2246.
More questions are answered on our estate planning FAQ, or ask us yours on a Right Fit Call.
Before any plan, any paperwork, or any commitment, we start with a Right Fit Call. Its only purpose is to find out whether we are the right firm for your family. If we are not, we will tell you that too.
Prefer to talk now? Call (405) 364-2246.