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Know your family will be protected and prepared in every season of your life.

30+ yearsprotecting Oklahoma families
Norman & Oklahoma Cityand families across Oklahoma
A Plan for Lifenot a drawer full of paper
Readers’ ChoiceBest Estate Planning Law Firm, Cleveland County
Marty Cain, Tamara Cain and Mitch Janik outside the firm
Marty, Tamara and Mitch
A Norman firm with a reputation as big as Oklahoma and Texas

Founded on a simple conviction

Tamara and Marty Cain built this firm on the belief that good estate planning is about relationships and not just documents. Too many families they met had paid for plans that sat in a drawer and quietly went out of date. So they built something different: a firm that counsels before it drafts, and that stays with you and your family for life.

Today, with Mitch Janik carrying that work into the next generation, Estate Planners for Life™ serves families across Oklahoma and Texas, women and men protecting a lifetime of work, business owners planning succession, and adult children caring for aging parents.

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A plan is not paper.

We make a mutual commitment that the people you love will be cared for, guided, and protected long after you are gone.

That is what it means to be Estate Planners for Life™.

The right plan for your family

A Plan for Everyone

We will guide you through your planning options based on your circumstances and the right strategy that will fit your needs today and for your tomorrows. We consider who will have access and control as well as your goals.


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The Three Step Strategy

We create the plan, we help you keep it current, we help your family use it

Most estate plans fail because a firm does the first of those and stops. All three are the job.

We create the plan

At the start

We learn your family first, then design the plan around it. If you teach us about your family, we will teach you about the law.

We keep it current

For as long as you want us to

Your life changes and so does the law. You are given the opportunity to periodically review your plan for changes in your life. Our firm will make recommendations based upon the law and our mutual learning. We will work together to make sure that you have an estate plan that will really work when it is needed.

We are there to help

The day it is finally needed

When the plan is finally needed, we are there to help your family settle it correctly and walk your trustees through the process.

The Estate Planners for Life Path to Planning

How a family gets to know us

Becoming a client takes three steps. If you are not ready for a call yet, there are three easy ways to get to know us first.


Step 1 of 3

Right Fit Call

When you are ready to explore working with us, the first step is a brief conversation with our team. We will learn what brought you to us, answer initial questions, and determine whether our planning process may be a good fit for your needs.

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Step 2 of 3

Family & Asset Questionnaire

Before meeting with an attorney, you will provide information about your family, assets, concerns, and planning priorities so we can make the most of our time together.

Book a Right Fit Call

Step 3 of 3

Get Acquainted Meeting

Meet with one of our attorneys to talk about your family, what matters most to you, and what you want your estate plan to accomplish. We will explain how we may be able to help and outline your options to move forward in the planning process.

Meet the attorneys

Your life, your story, your family, your plan.

The Estate Planners for Life™ difference

This month · October · Path to Planning Workshop Series

Will Your Family Know What to Do?

5 things you can do now to help your family later.

One hour, in plain language, on how estate plans actually work and how they quietly stop working. Our attorneys walk through what fails, why, and exactly what fixing it looks like, with time for your questions.

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Free · About one hour · In person
  • What happens without a plan, and how probate works in Oklahoma
  • Wills, trusts, and which one your family actually needs
  • How to keep an inheritance in the family for generations
  • The Three Step Strategy for a plan that lasts

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All educational events

Norman

Guests at an education session at a firm event

Thursday, October 8 · 1:00 pm or 6:00 pm

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Will Your Family Know What to Do?

Our office, 1770 West Main Street, Norman

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Inside the firm

This is what it is all about: families, relationships, and multiple generations

We plan for and protect the things people spend a lifetime building: the land, the home, the savings and investments, the oil and gas interests, the family business, and everything else they have worked hard to create and accumulate. Several times each year, our clients are given the opportunity to gather for additional estate planning-related learning opportunities. These are the people and families behind our estate plans. These are the relationships we have built, the stories we have heard, and the families we have the privilege of serving.

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In their words

Families we've had the honor to serve


“We feel fortunate to have found this firm. They took the time to understand our family before they ever talked about documents.”
Estate Planners for Life™ client
“A genuinely good experience from start to finish. They made a hard subject feel manageable and even hopeful.”
Estate Planners for Life™ client
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Readers' Choice Winner, Best Estate Planning
Recognized at home

Voted the best in Norman

Our firm has been named Best Estate Planning Law Firm in the Norman Transcript Readers’ Choice Awards, an honor voted on by readers across Norman and Cleveland County. It is the recognition we value most, because it comes from the neighbors we serve.

  • Norman Transcript Readers’ Choice, Best Estate Planning Law Firm
  • Member, National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys
  • Licensed in Oklahoma and Texas, serving families for more than thirty years
Practical estate planning guide

The 7-Step Family Protection Workbook: Will Your Estate Plan Work When Your Family Needs It Most?

The workbook helps you clarify what you want your plan to accomplish, identify possible gaps, prepare the right people, and decide what to do next, whether this is your first revocable living trust-based estate plan or you are reviewing an old one.

Separately, you can subscribe to A Matter of Trust, a weekly newsletter from Tamara featuring practical estate-planning guidance, thoughtful reflections on family and legacy, and other estate planning ideas worth passing along. Sign up for one or both.

  • The 7-Step Family Protection Workbook: free, a one-time download
  • A Matter of Trust: a letter from Tamara about once a week, with workshop dates before they fill
  • Written by Tamara, not by a marketing department

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A letter from Tamara about once a week. Unsubscribe any time. We never share your address.

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Questions we hear first

The questions Oklahoma families ask us first

Short, plain answers to what most families want to know before they ever call. If yours is not here, our full library lives on the FAQ page, and a Right Fit Call answers most questions for your family specifically.

What does an estate planning attorney actually do?

An estate planning attorney designs the legal structure that decides who receives what you own, who raises your children, and who makes decisions for you if you cannot. At Estate Planners for Life we counsel first and draft second, which means we start by learning your family, your values and your goals, and only then design the wills, trusts and powers of attorney that carry them out. The documents are the last step, not the first.

How much of my estate does probate cost in Oklahoma?

Oklahoma is one of the few states that sets probate attorney fees by statute, and once court costs, filing fees, appraisal and publication are added, families commonly see a meaningful share of the estate consumed before anyone inherits. The bigger costs are usually time and privacy: a traditional probate often runs six to twelve months, and everything filed becomes a public record that any neighbor, competitor or stranger can read.

Do I need a trust, or is a will enough?

A will alone is enough for some families and leaves others exposed. A will directs where property goes but still passes through probate, and it does nothing if you become incapacitated while living. A revocable living trust generally keeps your family out of probate, keeps your affairs private, and lets someone you chose step in immediately if you cannot act. For most families we serve in Oklahoma, a trust-centered plan gives far more protection and control.

Is estate planning only for wealthy families?

No. Estate planning decides who raises your children, who signs for you in a hospital, and whether your family spends a year in court, and none of those questions depend on the size of your estate. Families with a home, a retirement account and children have as much at stake as families with land and businesses. The plan is different, the need is not.

How often should an estate plan be reviewed?

At least every few years, and any time life changes. A marriage or a divorce, a birth or a death, a business sale, a move to another state, or a significant change in assets can all quietly break a plan that was correct the day it was signed. This is why our Lifetime Protection Plan includes ongoing maintenance rather than leaving review up to you to remember.

Where is Estate Planners for Life located, and who do you serve?

Our office is at 1770 West Main Street in Norman, Oklahoma, and we are licensed in both Oklahoma and Texas. We serve families across Cleveland County and the Oklahoma City metro, including Norman, Oklahoma City, Edmond, Moore and Yukon, and we hold free estate planning workshops in both Norman and the metro. You can reach us at (405) 364-2246.

More questions are answered on our estate planning FAQ, or ask us yours on a Right Fit Call.

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One short conversation, and you will know

Before any plan, any paperwork, or any commitment, we start with a Right Fit Call. Its only purpose is to find out whether we are the right firm for your family. If we are not, we will tell you that too.

  • About 15 minutes, by phone or in person, with a member of our team
  • No cost and no obligation
  • Straight answers about your options
  • A clear next step, if it makes sense

Prefer to talk now? Call (405) 364-2246.

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